. What are marriages today?
This question sets to
agitate the current status quo of this sacred ethos. The meaning can be easily
and readily grasp by its connotations; that which bond and of itself bound,
united, that which suits or fits perfectly, partnered as a working pair.
A working pair, how
are they paired? This is the area that has created all the catastrophes that
seem chaotic today. There is always an exact matching pair for all energies, an
opposite that catalyzes the spark (conducive spark I dare say) abound if we
know how to discriminate the discordant vibrations.
Art and design define
this better, through the color theory and their placement on the wheel and the
fitting of things, as usually observed of square pegs in equally suited square
holes; the understanding that the opposite attracts is very apt, as opposite
colors on the wheel represent complements as an infallible principle. As humans
we find it difficult to always see ourselves as energies, rather we concentrate
so much on the form we called the physical body and also the tangible
environment, without observing that we also are kaleidoscopic color waves.
The training of self to become conscious and to perceive the
energies perennial in our environment is one's
ability to read and understand the predominant vibrations that rule a
given place, an individual or events, as
we all exudes emanations an admixture to the flux that flows constantly in our
daily interactions.
These essential
factors have been debased as “instincts” when it should be a natural process as
breathing. You will question what all these analogies have to do with marriage;
because marriages, over a long period have been enacted solely from the
platform of external presentiments, channeled by social ethics, pressures and
boredom, ethnic and tribal standings, in most cases of selfish purposes, not
exempting the act of procreation geared towards the bringing forth of
offspring, yet this is also anchored in the same manner of falsehood.
The externalization of our lives severs the connection of
the ability to adequately read these energies around us, which fundamentally is
the decider of what we call “choice” through the attractions of our yearnings.
The choice is everything, but also irretrievable once activated to proceed to
bear the homogenous fruits as a recompense of our decisions. This fruits most
times retroactively come back to us as pains, disappointment, incapacitations,
regrets, and death; yet countless still stagger as if in a stupor, into the
same pit daily, as if the entire society has been hypnotized into a perpetual
circle of doom.
This singular act of
wrong choices in our marriages stunts the personality, with much that would
have been healthy in its development if we had learned how to pair correctly;
as correct pairs are the deciding factors that propel everything that has
warmth, mobility, and sustainability in every design and life. The society is
so divided and confused that, this common sense constantly eludes us. To
recognize that we all run on an invisible wavelengths which are interactive in
its mode every second, which we sometimes describe as our temperaments; and
that we also possess an inbuilt mechanism like a radar, to collect and collate
information and frequencies around us in through and in this wavelengths; this
realization will allow for a proper identification of opposites or
complementary energies, whose application can only be achieved by a pre-
elimination of all forms of biases and prejudices that could easily become an
impediment to our choices in this process.
These impediments are
today the abyss that constantly demands more victims, as everything has been
watered down by our external senses which always dictates and always leads us
astray. This may come in varied forms as aforementioned, either as selfish desires
bordering on greed, lust, avarice, societal or peer pressures and wrongly
fostered social inclinations. The latter is the worst of these worms, as
everything now shifts towards distortions and deceits, of wanting to “belong”
and stand out as important in the society.
Parents sought, match make, cajoled and interferes in the
lives of their children even to absurdity, destroying their children’s healthy
and intuitive decisions as not approved by their presumptions of what is good
and beneficial to their wards, even on to a ripe age of maturity and
self-liberated periods of this children. The results always are frustration,
bitterness, incompatibility, infidelity, divorces and all sorts of acrimony
that is an outcrop of this wrongly permutated ideas. Today this is widely
accepted as a rule, albeit the pains and frustrations. Life and its purpose are
wasted in such unions, and the human beings never really lived nor find
fulfillment.
That institution called marriage, has been badly poisoned
today by pretenses and deadening of our senses to the fact of the miserableness
and futility of such wrong way of life, that without a reversal to the right
mode, the society is then irredeemable to slow extinction as our children only
grow up to see this as a tradition and a way of life of the people, quietly
acquiescing to a doomed world
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